If you really love me..

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You'd follow me on twitter!

A while back I was wishing I could post the only status I care about on facebook.

Now I can do it! Real time updates from the life of a serial dater.

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  1. Jewish Side of BabysitterAugust 19, 2009 at 12:18 AM

    I like your new theme!

    I'm already following you, and you me!

    Although, you can make facebook like that too, you can choose who can see what, when you publish something, with a drop down menu, if you make your newsfeed available to everyone in the privacy settings.

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