tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4538026753449287703.post3869197693310108529..comments2024-02-26T11:19:58.885+02:00Comments on Frum N' Flipping: Chapter 20: Separate SeatingFrum N' Flippinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08916430533625318667noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4538026753449287703.post-11743316841594076182010-04-11T00:05:38.811+03:002010-04-11T00:05:38.811+03:00I missed you too! But I'm back :-)I missed you too! But I'm back :-)Frum N' Flippinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08916430533625318667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4538026753449287703.post-62736843832049769102010-04-09T02:12:33.444+03:002010-04-09T02:12:33.444+03:00Are you still here?!Are you still here?!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4538026753449287703.post-52583549431972605552010-04-07T23:02:57.885+03:002010-04-07T23:02:57.885+03:00I love the writing, but I have to disagree with on...I love the writing, but I have to disagree with one premise - that you can tell who is relaxed by the way he wears his yarmulka and holds his jacket. Speak to family physicians and therapists and you'll see that looks can be very deceiving. The popular guy, the leader, could be covering up severe anxiety and drowns himself in attention from his followers in order not to face his constant fears. Of course wealth and style are classic flags for anxiety and depression. Even if you actually meet the one who were outwardly attracted to there's no guarantee. As a friend of mine once said - there's a lot of guys who are great daters but horrible husbands, and others who are horrible daters but great husbands. I have no better advice than prayer and following your deep instincts.Moenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4538026753449287703.post-75715781847624210862010-03-26T08:08:15.241+03:002010-03-26T08:08:15.241+03:00You made my day - I always knew the girls were loo...You made my day - I always knew the girls were looking at us between dances.frumsatirehttp://frumsatire.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4538026753449287703.post-22847721819112320812010-03-16T02:59:49.280+02:002010-03-16T02:59:49.280+02:00That's really weird! Was your response the sam...That's really weird! Was your response the same as Karen's? Also, was she asking it in a truly curious sort of way or in a catty sort of way? Because I can picture both....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4538026753449287703.post-5939150604013374852010-03-15T23:26:31.559+02:002010-03-15T23:26:31.559+02:00Thanks everyone!
I guess the girl in the conversa...Thanks everyone!<br /><br />I guess the girl in the conversation does sound extreme. I put it in because it really happened to me, at an engagement party here!Frum N' Flippinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08916430533625318667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4538026753449287703.post-59705447761291322552010-03-15T22:54:00.847+02:002010-03-15T22:54:00.847+02:00"He slung his jacket casually over his should..."He slung his jacket casually over his shoulder, and his Kippah perched at an angle on his head, as if he'd thrown it on without caring where it landed."<br /><br />He doesn't wear a hat? :-OFeivel ben Mishaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01619610462399086395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4538026753449287703.post-23207367639099029152010-03-15T17:05:40.488+02:002010-03-15T17:05:40.488+02:00This post was great! I live in NY, and every weddi...This post was great! I live in NY, and every wedding i go to the single girls are by the mechitza checking out the bochurim-noone thinks its wierd at all. also, why do you think so many single girls stand on the side by the chupa? so they can be seen!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4538026753449287703.post-12734446351862233592010-03-15T05:18:28.505+02:002010-03-15T05:18:28.505+02:00Very nice!Very nice!Feivel ben Mishaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01619610462399086395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4538026753449287703.post-87391217230709685732010-03-15T03:06:06.993+02:002010-03-15T03:06:06.993+02:00I am enjoying each of your installments!
Just one...I am enjoying each of your installments!<br /><br />Just one point that I don't totally buy in this chapter, re: the girl asking Karen why she was looking through the Mechitza--even the frummest girl has at some point in her life or other had a crush on a boy and would understand (even if she wouldn't do it herself because she is too self-conscious) why a girl would be checking out the yeshiva boys....after all, why do you think teenage girls enjoy watching the dancing on Simchas Torah?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com